im not setting up a family becos we ve no communication...
how do i communicate w someone who insists he's rite all the time?
e.g.1) when u ask him to eat, he says u make him fat. when u ask him to stop eatg, he blames u for u for causing him to be hungry.
e.g.2) u ask him not to play sports n be ard, he says he nids to exercise. on a sunday, bcos of he chooses to go for soccer, ends up not having lunch w family, he blames u for not appreciative of ur in laws and not visiting them.
how do u live w someone who always hurl negatives things abt U?
in the end i m the one who gets hurt, i lose alot of self esteem, im sad n lost.
how u saw a future w him in the past turns out dat he falls short of ur expectations.
u tot things can work out but when quarrels becomes a daily routine or several times in a day, ther is no solutions. u dun quarel now, u keep quiet and let the sad feeling go away. in due time, the worst u least expected it to happen happens.
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